Safety · 5 min read
The first-date safety checklist we wish everyone used
Marcus Lee, Trust & Safety ·
Most dates are great. A little preparation makes sure yours are, too. This is the checklist our Trust & Safety team actually uses.
Before you go
Video chat first if you can. Look for the verified badge, which means they passed a live selfie check. Search their name if they've shared it. And use Share My Date to send a trusted friend who, where and when.
During the date
Meet somewhere public and busy. Get yourself there and back. Keep your drink in sight. You never owe anyone more of your time than you want to give.
If something feels off
Leave. You can unmatch, block and report from any chat, and reports are reviewed by real people. If you're in danger, call 911.