MeantMee works when people feel safe being themselves. These guidelines apply everywhere on MeantMee: profiles, photos, messages, Nearby, and anything that happens when you meet someone you found here. When you join, you pledge to follow them.
1. Be yourself, for real
- Use your real first name and age, and photos that clearly show you.
- One person, one account. No impersonation, no catfishing, no accounts for someone else.
- You must be 18 or older. Report anyone you believe is underage.
2. Be respectful
- No harassment, threats, bullying, or unwanted sexual messages. "No" or no reply means no.
- No hate speech or slurs, and no attacks based on race, ethnicity, national origin, religion, caste, disability, sex, gender identity, sexual orientation or age.
- Respect pronouns and identities.
3. Keep content appropriate
- No nudity or sexually explicit photos. Swimwear at the beach is fine; anything explicit is not.
- Never share intimate images of anyone without their consent. We remove them and ban the account.
- No content involving minors in any sexual context. We report it to NCMEC.
- No graphic violence, weapons used to intimidate, or illegal drugs for sale.
4. No scams, spam or selling
- Never ask members for money, gift cards, crypto, or financial information.
- No advertising, promotions, recruiting, follower-farming, or links to paid content.
- No escort services, sex work solicitation, or trafficking.
5. Nearby etiquette
- Nearby is an invitation, not a tracking tool. Never try to work out where someone is, follow anyone, or show up uninvited.
- If someone doesn't respond to a wave, let it go.
- Don't use location spoofing or multiple accounts to probe the radar.
6. Offline behavior counts
We may act on reports of harmful behavior that happens off MeantMee, including at dates arranged here, such as assault, threats, or stalking. If you're in danger, call 911 first.
7. How we enforce
Reports are reviewed by trained people, supported by automated tools. Depending on severity and history we may remove content, warn you, suspend your account for 1, 3, 7 or 30 days, or ban you permanently, including your device, email and phone. Some violations, such as sharing intimate images without consent, child sexual exploitation, or credible threats, lead to an immediate permanent ban and may be reported to authorities.
See how to report. To appeal a decision, email appeals@meantmee.com.